Sunday, May 20, 2018

Methods Of Conversing With Your Husband Hard Of Hearing

By Nancy Walker


At times, we are born with all our senses working. Over time, or with old age, some of the senses like hearing and seeing to fail. At other time they just fail without reason. Sometimes we just have to live with the condition we find ourselves in. Sometimes, it is our friends or loved ones suffering from such conditions. Below are tips on how to communicate to a husband hard of hearing.

When a speaking to a person with difficulty in hearing, it is important to be considerate of this fact. Therefore, before you begin to speak, make a point of catching the persons attention. With normal people, you could just begin to talk but with them, concentration is paramount on their part. To avoid them not following the conversation, it is important to inform them before you talk.

It is obvious that you cannot see in the dark. The same way, a person can sometimes not hear what you might be saying even if their listening aid is on. To make it easier for them, make sure you are always facing them when you speak so that they are able to read your lips. The hearing aid only makes the sound louder for them to hear not clearer.

The hearing aid only controls the loudness of what you are saying. If you, therefore, want to be heard, it is best you try enunciating in your speech. Apart from enunciating, make sure that you speak at a steady pace. This allows the listening party time to try and read your lips and process what is being said. Too slow maybe useless as it may be hard to gather what is being said.

Pick a quiet place. As mentioned before, hearing aids magnify the noise rather than clearing it up. So if you are going out go to one of the quiet and peaceful restaurants, or pick a corner booth with good lighting. At home, you should try to minimize the noise like turning down the AC and putting off the music when you speak.

At times, it is usually a group of people hanging out. You may be very excited but it is difficult to consider the person with trouble hearing. You should make an effort to face the person as you speak and make sure they can see you. You should also not speak at the same time. Take turns to avoid excluding the person.

The first few letters of a word can give a person an idea of what is being discussed. Therefore, you can spell the letters of a word that is hard to get. You should also not be tired of repeating a phrase several times in case they did not get it on the first try. Ultimately, you can choose to rephrase the words altogether and make them simpler.

You want the person to be comfortable around you. When you have a hard time understanding each other, you can look at the positive side and make fun of it. This will make you more comfortable with each other.




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